If you’re laying with a man that’s laying with multiple women and any of those women have toxic traits, insecurities or underlying emotional issues, you’ll receive them through the sexual exchange. If you’re laying with a man that’s toxic or hasn’t healed his past trauma you’ll receive it through sex. Screen your partners not only for STDs but for Spiritually Transmitted Disease too. 

Had a doctors appointment this morning and the doctor confirmed again through an ultrasound that my little bubs still breech. C-section is scheduled for Tuesday, 7/9 @ 12:30.

I’m going to miss being pregnant 😢

And counting…

Turn baby turn!

My baby daddy is/was never around to see how cute of a pregnant woman I am. The pregnancy glow is too real. I’m truly going to miss being pregnant. I’d do it all over again, with the right one this time around of course!

He had one job…and that was to make me not ever want another man! #EPICFAIL

Fellas- free game: At some point, you have to grow out of the “real nigga” stage and start presenting yourself like a real man. Shout out to the real men stepping in!

A wise man once told me, “A man is only insecure about a woman when he knows that she deserves better” and that really hit me.

Alameda, CA

#36Weeks

The feeling you get seeing your plants start to grow and blossom is just beyond anything you’ve felt, I promise.

I had a growth ultrasound because my fundal height was measuring low at last appointment. The doctor said everything looked normal but said “the femur is on the shorter side, so that might explain why the fundal measurement is lower”. She didn’t elaborate but just said baby could be on the shorter side, and ended with “all good!”. Overall baby measured 6 lbs 7 oz. Even though she didn’t seem concerned, I’m a worry wort and of course started googling short femur just to see all the possibilities, DS, dwarfism etc. Dr just said weight looks good so we’re all good! All said “normal” at 20 week ultrasound and I never had additional testing. Can someone put my mind at ease that I shouldn’t be worrying about this? As we all know, we want everything to be perfect all of the time! I’ve read that anatomy scans this late in the game can be inaccurate too. I’m waiting for the doctor to set up a phone appointment so that we can discuss further.

When you remember to be grateful for everything you have, you receive more.

Hayward, CA

Found this hidden gem that’s only 10 minutes away from the house.